中国四大宽容:大过年的,人都死了,都不容易,来都来了。
标签: 人际关系
你觉得自己内向,是因为享受独处。

You think you’re an introvert because you like being alone.
But in reality you just love being at peace. And you’re actually extroverted around people who bring you peace.
– Zachary Laid
如果别人把你当作备选,那你就主动选择离开他们。
If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice.
慎信他人,盐糖同形。
唯有经历以下时刻,方能真正读懂一个人。
You don’t know a person until:
- You travel with them.
- Money is involved.
- You deal with them when they’re angry.
- You live with them.
– @thirdeyethoughts
人们对待你的方式,取决于他们自身的需求和贪欲。
Mostly, people will treat you according to their needs and greed.
多数情况下,人们对待你的方式,取决于他们自身的需求和贪欲。
不管是机器、房子,还是处对象,平时多维护肯定比坏了再修要省钱。
Whether it’s a machine, a house, or a relationship, maintenance is always cheaper than repairing.
不管是机器、房子,还是处对象,平时多维护肯定比坏了再修要省钱。
别人希望你成功…… 但不希望你比他们更成功。
People want you to succeed…
But not more than themselves.
别人希望你成功…… 但不希望你比他们更成功。
朋友的麻烦会变成你的麻烦,圈子越小,你要应付的破事就越少。
Your friends’ problems become your problems.
The smaller your circle, the less bullshit you have to deal with.
毕淑敏:在海中央看海。
黄昏黎明时分,在海中央看海,大海苍天,只有你一人夹在其中,天人合一之感,醍醐灌顶。船是一种特殊的载体,当它蹒跚大海之腹,远离陆地,自身比例小到可以忽略不计。放眼四野,围绕眼帘的都是圆滑到无可挑剔的海平线,凡俗的世界早已悄然遁没。
所有曾经的烦恼,芜杂的人际关系,不堪回首的悲苦,还有层出不穷的愿望,都像被船桨切断的海草,漂浮而去。只有让人灵魂出窍的蔚蓝色,由于深达几千米的摞叠,化作了近乎黑色的铁幕,襁褓一样包裹着生灵孤寂的肉体和灵魂。 继续阅读“毕淑敏:在海中央看海。”
