保持快乐的秘诀，其实就是五个字：不要太用力。做事业不要急于求成，交朋友不要掏心掏肺，谈恋爱不要占有，过日子不要追求完美。获得什么便珍惜什么，失去什么便接受什么，给我的我欢喜，不给我的我不焦虑，就是这样，付七分力气留三分给嬉戏。
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你觉得自己内向，是因为享受独处。
You think you’re an introvert because you like being alone.
But in reality you just love being at peace. And you’re actually extroverted around people who bring you peace.
– Zachary Laid
如果别人把你当作备选，那你就主动选择离开他们。
If people treat you like an option, leave them like a choice.
慎信他人，盐糖同形。
唯有经历以下时刻，方能真正读懂一个人。
You don’t know a person until:
- You travel with them.
- Money is involved.
- You deal with them when they’re angry.
- You live with them.
– @thirdeyethoughts
人们对待你的方式，取决于他们自身的需求和贪欲。
Mostly, people will treat you according to their needs and greed.
多数情况下，人们对待你的方式，取决于他们自身的需求和贪欲。
不管是机器、房子，还是处对象，平时多维护肯定比坏了再修要省钱。
Whether it’s a machine, a house, or a relationship, maintenance is always cheaper than repairing.
不管是机器、房子，还是处对象，平时多维护肯定比坏了再修要省钱。
别人希望你成功…… 但不希望你比他们更成功。
People want you to succeed…
But not more than themselves.
别人希望你成功…… 但不希望你比他们更成功。
朋友的麻烦会变成你的麻烦，圈子越小，你要应付的破事就越少。
Your friends’ problems become your problems.
The smaller your circle, the less bullshit you have to deal with.
五年后的你会是什么样，很大程度上取决于这几件事。
五年后的你会是什么样，很大程度上取决于这几件事：读的书、吃的饭、常来往的人、养成的习惯，还有聊的天。
—— 佚名
The person you will be in 5 years depends largely on:
The books you read；
The food you eat；
The people you spend time with；
The habits you adopt；
The conversations you engage in.
– Unknown
